Why Do Women Fake an Orgasm?

This is an age old question that has been asked again and again. I have talked to a lot of women who have admitted to faking it at least once...even with their husbands. My conclusion is that women fake it because they do not want to hurt their man's feelings. Am I right? If you have been in relationship with someone for a long time, can't you just be honest and not fake it?  Why go through the ordeal of faking it just to inflate the man's ego?

According to Lovepanky.com, here are a few reason why women fake it(No 11; is that a problem? LOL):

#1 The biggest reason. It’s a fake pity orgasm. You’re not arousing her enough to bring her to climax. But your woman doesn't want to hurt your feelings because she cares about you, and finds it easier to just fake it and end it.

#2 She’s not in the mood. You’re horny and turned on. But she’s not. And she’s having sex only because you want it.

#3 She knows she’s not going to orgasm. This is psychological, and she probably knows she’s going to fake it even before you penetrate her.

#4 She’s preoccupied. There’s something on her mind, and she’s too distracted to enjoy sex. S

#5 She knows you’re trying hard. She’s feeling bad about it, but for some reason, she’s just not able to orgasm. And she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or land a blow on your confidence, so she lies to you just to see you smile proudly.


#6 You’re boring! Well, let’s face it, you may be rather boring one night. And if she’s getting tired of the to-and-fro and is subduing her yawns with her palms, it may just be easier to fake it without being too mean.

#7 Anger issues. She’s angry with you, or is giving you the silent treatment. And you teasing her and seducing her into having sex isn’t helping, because she’ll hate you more for it. But if she doesn’t want to confront the issue or sit up talking about it, she may find it easier to just do the deed instead.

#8 She’s stressed out. Your woman could have had a long and tiring day, and as much as she wants to enjoy sex, she may just be too tired to enjoy it. And if she doesn’t want to upset you or make you feel bad about your performance, she may just fake it.

#9 She’s in a hurry. You’re initiating sex out of the blue, and she’s got better things to do. Perhaps, she wants to sleep, watch her favorite show or get out and do something. What’s the fastest way to wrap sex up? Yeah, fake it!

#10 She’s had her share of fun. A woman doesn’t always have to orgasm to enjoy sex. Sometimes, she may feel like she’s had her share of fun and may just want to end it without reaching for an orgasm.

#11 The guy takes too long. Your girl may just want to finish up because she wants to sleep or be done with it. And if you’re trying really hard to push her soft spots and make her orgasm, she may just give in and fake an orgasm just to end it and go back to sleep.