Have you ever bumped into an old friend or acquaintance and you greet them with a question like: "Did you add weight?' or What happened to your face"? If yes; then you my friend are rude! Seriously, everybody has days they don't look or feel their best and they know it! The last thing they need is some self hating "frenemy" pointing it out to them in such a callous manner. If you are not a very very dear friend, my husband or my mother...keep your negative commentary to yourself.
We need to learn to respect people's feelings and stop making unsolicited comments as well as TEACH people how to talk to us. Put rude people in their place!
My conclusion is - anyone who feels the need to judge your appearance or decisions without being asked is most likely a hater! I have zero tolerance for such insolence so I quickly move such people to the left.
Share your rude question/comment encounters.
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